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How to Set Screen Limits Without a Fight

🌊 The Problem:

Kids don’t like being told “No.”
And let’s be honest — even we don’t!
Especially when it comes to something that gives instant happiness — like screens.

🧠 A Thought to Reflect:

In the Mahabharata, Krishna never forced Arjuna to fight.
He guided him with reason and let Arjuna choose.

This is the secret:
Guide, don’t command.
Explain, don’t threaten.

✅ Action Steps for Parents:

1. Make It Mutual

Instead of saying, “Only 1 hour of phone,”
Say: “Let’s decide together how much is okay.”
Involve them in setting the rule.
If they help make it, they’ll help follow it.

2. Offer Attractive Alternatives

Don’t just say “Get off the screen.”
Say:
🌳 “Let’s go on a walk.”
🎨 “Let’s draw your favourite character.”
🧩 “Let’s solve this puzzle together.”

Replace the addiction, don’t just remove it.

3. Follow What You Preach

When you ask them to reduce screen time, be the first example.
Let them see you choosing real life too.

🏠 A Ritual to Try:

Create a “No-Screen Hour” every evening for the whole family.
Everyone puts away devices.
You could chant, share stories, or cook together.

Let the child feel:

“I’m not losing my phone. I’m gaining my family.”

🌼 Parenting Wisdom from Our Roots

In the Ramayana, Rama never questioned his guru.
Why?
Because the guru had earned his respect through love and wisdom.

Be the kind of parent your child wants to listen to — not out of fear, but love.

💛 One Powerful Line to Remember:

“Rules without relationship lead to rebellion.
Love first. Limits will follow.”

✨ Stay tuned for Tip 3: “Is Your Child Addicted to the Screen or Just Bored?”
Coming soon from the heart of Omkar School.